尊严比活着更重要!
2008-06-4 16:06:58[3:16:36 PM] customer 说: so, did you send me any samples?
[3:17:08 PM] me 说: no
[3:17:23 PM] me 说: we did not have a deal on that project,
[3:17:44 PM] me 说: did you mean the desktop flex project?
[3:18:03 PM] customer 说: yes
[3:18:46 PM] me 说: we did not have a deal on that
[3:18:53 PM] customer 说: yes not yet
[3:19:10 PM] customer 说: i wanted to ask if you have any samples of air applications you created
[3:20:10 PM] me 说: ….
[3:20:16 PM] me 说: you really forget everything
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[3:22:24 PM] customer 说: aha now i remember
[3:22:27 PM] customer 说: you are in china
[3:22:28 PM] customer 说: right?
[3:22:31 PM] me 说: yes
[3:22:40 PM] customer 说: you quoted something like 2000$?
[3:22:49 PM] customer 说: it was much beyond my budget
[3:23:12 PM] me 说: this not a small project in my opinion,
[3:23:32 PM] me 说: waht is your acceptable quote?
[3:24:05 PM] customer 说: 500
[3:24:34 PM] me 说: BTW,what is your site url?
[3:24:42 PM] me 说: I have forget your site url
[3:24:58 PM] customer 说: i have a number of projects - this is the first of a series of which
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[3:25:44 PM] me 说: I got it, you want to clone to a desktop air software
[3:25:59 PM] me 说: sorry,really more work than you thought
[3:27:56 PM] me 说: I think you just want to find some one chapter, I will not compare price with them…
[3:28:36 PM] me 说: sorry ,cheaper ,I meam
[3:28:37 PM] customer 说: yes, but 500 is a lot of money
[3:28:43 PM] customer 说: especially in china
[3:29:00 PM] customer 说: average salary in china is much lower
[3:29:07 PM] me 说: lol,if you like, I can refer you other guys
[3:29:18 PM] customer 说: it’s true
[3:32:28 PM] me 说: what is true?
[3:33:13 PM] customer 说: [8:28:37 AM] customer says: yes, but 500 is a lot of money
[8:28:44 AM] customer says: especially in china
[8:29:01 AM] customer says: average salary in china is much lower
[3:34:23 PM] me 说: see your project,not a small one,you need clone full function to a desktop one..
[3:36:00 PM] customer 说: i am not disputing whether it is small or big, but i think 500 is sufficient for it, especially for someone working in china. the price structure is very different. for example, how much do you pay for your apartment?
[3:36:12 PM] customer 说: per month
[3:36:45 PM] me 说: 1500 yuan 220$
[3:37:59 PM] customer 说: you see, this pays for more than 2 times your monthly rent
[3:38:18 PM] customer 说: you can include food in that too
[3:38:22 PM] customer 说: and entertainment
[3:38:32 PM] me 说: …. good idea, so I just work for live?
[3:38:58 PM] customer 说: where exactly in china are you?
[3:39:32 PM] me 说: Beijing
[3:40:00 PM] me 说: I think you have work with other guys in China before ,right?
[3:40:24 PM] customer 说: yep
[3:41:18 PM] me 说: so you have a idea that people cheaper here, yes ,it is true,but for good me,we work same with others over world.
[3:41:53 PM] me 说: So I just quote for project,not quote according where I am live
[3:43:50 PM] customer 说: yes, but that’s the point of me getting a me in another country - if i just go “by project” i can hire someone right here next to me - the point for me to outsource to someone in china or india or ukraine is because it is cheaper.
[3:45:08 PM] me 说: I can earn 1000$ in 7 days,so why I accept your project 500$ and work for 2 month?
[3:45:39 PM] me 说: you get what you paid for,I think so
[3:46:15 PM] customer 说: ok, that’s up to you - i am simply offering you a chance - if you have better offers, by all means, don’t let me stand in the way ![]()
[3:49:10 PM] customer 说: in any case, if you ever find yourself free and think you’d like to work on something, don’t hesitate to contact me
[3:50:20 PM] me 说: en,I will ,I understand specs of your project,but not accept price.
[3:50:27 PM] me 说: see you.
[3:50:38 PM] customer 说: bye!
[3:50:41 PM] me 说: bye
古语有云:不食嗟来之食!比较激动,不想多说。从世界角度来说,我们国家的人是便宜,但是绝不放弃尊严来接受不合理交易。尊严比活着更重要!

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你根本不应该跟他说这么多的.
浪费口水.
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自由天空 reply on 2008 June 4 5:21 pm:
我本来也不想多说,可发觉她越说越不对味。。。。
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小猪凯 reply on 2008 June 4 5:26 pm:
嗯,大概配合上语境之类的,味道不对,表现得不友好.
我匆匆看了一下,没怎么注意这些.
果然林子大了什么鸟都有啊.我还是做得太少了,遇到的一旦在价格上话不投机,立马说88.最近更是只给一个人做.等能上网后吧,一定要多接触些别的客户.
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呵呵,我觉得你的反应有点过激了.对方觉得不发达国家工资水平低,所以500$就足够了.你只要告诉他你有自己的标准就行了.
浪费了好多口水啊,好可惜.不过你的英语的确比我的强很多,词汇比我的要丰富多了.
当然了,也许他的确表示出了对中国的某些不友好的意思来,只是我没看出来.那么就当我没说好了.
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自由天空 reply on 2008 June 4 5:30 pm:
不,你没感觉出来她的语境,她是这种语气:
小猪凯,听说你们那里人工资低啊,这个项目一般人做要1000,我给你100,你就得做并且还得偷着乐啊。谁让你们那里人便宜呢。。。
你会有什么感觉?
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小猪凯 reply on 2008 June 4 5:34 pm:
呵呵,配合上不同的语境,相同的话会表现出非常不同的意思来.是我刚才没有仔细体会.
跟你一起BS万恶的资本主义佬!
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自由天空 reply on 2008 June 4 5:36 pm:
正如你所说林子大了什么都有,
他其实说的没错,只不过不考虑尊严,尊严才是更重要的东西啊。
呵呵,希望你们碰到这样的事也能有效的处理之。
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小猪凯 reply on 2008 June 4 6:23 pm:
呵呵,最近没做多少。
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tim reply on 2008 June 5 1:08 am:
遇到这种人真是浪费力气,今天我也遇到一个,气人。什么都谈好了,价格最后一说就byebye了。以后还是要先订好一个价格先。
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小猪凯 reply on 2008 June 5 8:11 am:
嘿嘿,小气鬼哪儿都有.
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哎呀,好羡慕你呀。
支持你一下。
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我的经验,大多数时候是在选标的时候就选一个最便宜的了,哈哈
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自由天空 reply on 2008 June 5 1:26 pm:
别紧,等我有尽情的时候写一篇文章解释一下这个事,你已经提过好多次这种情况了,他有他的选择,我们有我们的方向。。。
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tim reply on 2008 June 5 3:42 pm:
没办法阿,我bid了650块,被一个bid500块只有两个评论的人拿去了。气
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自由天空 reply on 2008 June 5 4:13 pm:
呵呵,你90后啊,还这么冲动。哈哈
你怎么知道人家500的不如你做的好?
这种情况基本上是人家做的又好又便宜哦。
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小猪凯 reply on 2008 June 5 4:18 pm:
从客户的角度来看,那没错.
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自由天空 reply on 2008 June 5 4:25 pm:
挣钱不挣第一次那文章你们看了没?
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小猪凯 reply on 2008 June 5 4:28 pm:
第一次接单?第一次接某种类型的单?第一次接某个客户的单?
每个人都有自己的想法吧.按照自己的想法,坚持坚持再坚持就是了.
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应该跟她说,现在美元跌得这么厉害,今天收你2000$明天就缩水一半,看她怎么想^_^
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题目好像是韩寒的文章啊.
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操,有这样的人
妈的,感觉有点像歧视中国人一样
楼主做得好
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自由天空 reply on 2008 July 17 11:25 am:
自己感觉去吧,说不出来。
请注意用语
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哈哈,真是个鸟人,别理他就是了!不是所有的客户都要满足的!
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顶,鄙视我们中国人
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请问楼主是否在外国留过学,英语那么棒!
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小猪凯 reply on 2008 August 19 9:39 am:
我来替博主回答吧,”无他,唯手熟尔”
几年前我还连一篇非常简单的英语技术文章也看不了,一年前我跟外国人用邮件的方式交流都需要看半天,半年前我用MSN跟外国人用英语交流磕磕绊绊……现在已经比以前熟练了许多,不过还非常不够.
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tim reply on 2008 August 19 10:05 am:
嗯,比较难,最大的痛苦是学了十几年的英语,其实缺少一个最重要的语境。就像闭门造车。只好认了
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自由天空 reply on 2008 August 19 10:09 am:
替你更新一下,我们不是学了几十年的英语,我们是学了几十年的中国英语,考试英语,单词英语。而不是交流用的英语。
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小猪凯 reply on 2008 August 19 10:25 am:
是呀,学的东西可能比较深,但由于没有应用的地方,学完了就忘,以至于学了十几年还不如在应用中学习几年呢.
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自由天空 reply on 2008 August 19 10:42 am:
这就叫实践出真知了
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Either birds live in a such huge forest.
If someone wanna earn cheap money in China, he will always be a cheap man!
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Well done! Cheer for you!
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